Husband's love - Essential for Unity
Unity is a catalyst for a progressive marriage. Mutual appreciation and genuine desire to help your spouse up in life are like a well mixed concrete poured on the foundation of any construction in a swampy land, it will be strong.
A man's love
A man's love to a woman is like the arteries that transport blood to the heart. Any seizure or little blockage in the arteries, the heart fails. It could lead to death or mental failure respectively. Whatever is the effect, it has negative impacts on the person.
Husband love is vital to what you do and who you are, that is why God gave husbands the commandment to love their wives. The husband's love is the missing dimension in many marriages today.
Love in Marriage - In the bible, it says "Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them" (Colossians 3 : 19). It is also written that Husbands, love your wifes, even as Christ also loved the church and gave himself for it = Ephesians 5:25.
IN conclusion, we must love each other as Christ loved us. Husbands must loved their wives with a perfect and unconditional love at all times.
Tuesday, April 6, 2010
Thursday, April 1, 2010
Make Your Husband Desire You Again and Save Your Marriage! How to Do it the Right Way
If your marriage is losing it, knowing how to make your husband desire you again can magically rebuild everything, and make your marriage last forever. Maybe you have a friend who has that "perfect" marriage - her husband is everything you would want. If you find yourself jealous of this, don't. You can make your marriage just like that perfect marriage you have been envying.
First of all, I want you to think back of the times when you and your husband were first together. There must be things you had that made your husband mad about you - that's why he married you. Unfortunately, it's not easy stay the same person throughout the marriage if you are not making a conscious effort for it. But if you think about it, it is not hard to show your husband that you have not changed at all, and you are still the woman he was crazy about before. This is essential if you want to make your husband desire you again.
Understanding what to focus on is also essential. One big, big reason for husband losing interest in their wives is that their wives lose what once made them individual, lively and independent. For you to be interesting and stimulating, you need to make your husband understand that your life isn't dull and you have a life outside the marriage. The truth is that a man takes responsibility in the well-being of his wife's life. If your whole life is your marriage, know that nobody wants to carry the happiness of their spouse entirely upon their shoulders.
Even if both spouses love each other sincerely, at times they might find themselves getting more and more distant from each other and getting close to a divorce. But like me, you too can take some steps into saving your marriage and turning it into a satisfying relationship.
Your marriage is not doomed to a divorce. I know that it might feel like there is no way to save your marriage now, but there is. With the use of specific techniques, you can repair your relationship and build something that will last for life.
First of all, I want you to think back of the times when you and your husband were first together. There must be things you had that made your husband mad about you - that's why he married you. Unfortunately, it's not easy stay the same person throughout the marriage if you are not making a conscious effort for it. But if you think about it, it is not hard to show your husband that you have not changed at all, and you are still the woman he was crazy about before. This is essential if you want to make your husband desire you again.
Understanding what to focus on is also essential. One big, big reason for husband losing interest in their wives is that their wives lose what once made them individual, lively and independent. For you to be interesting and stimulating, you need to make your husband understand that your life isn't dull and you have a life outside the marriage. The truth is that a man takes responsibility in the well-being of his wife's life. If your whole life is your marriage, know that nobody wants to carry the happiness of their spouse entirely upon their shoulders.
Even if both spouses love each other sincerely, at times they might find themselves getting more and more distant from each other and getting close to a divorce. But like me, you too can take some steps into saving your marriage and turning it into a satisfying relationship.
Your marriage is not doomed to a divorce. I know that it might feel like there is no way to save your marriage now, but there is. With the use of specific techniques, you can repair your relationship and build something that will last for life.
How to mend a broken marriage
In our busy society it has become very easy to take even the most important relationships for granted - our friendships, close companionships, and especially our marriages are neglected and taken for granted. A once hard fought trophy marriage now sits languishing on a shelf. Why? Simple. While a long-lasting marriage is indeed a great prize to be had in order to reach that goal couples should never treat it like a trophy.
Why does love in a marriage seem to just fade away
For most couples, this isn't intentional but more a result of a busy lifestyle resulting in temporary neglect, similar, although in a larger scale, to forgetting to water a favorite plant or feed a family pet. The sad part is that there are many married couples that realize almost too late that their feelings for each other has all but dried up and their love has almost died. Fortunately, most relationship can still be resuscitated with the proper attention and care and with time the old feelings of love can begin to bloom again.
Why A Marriage Should Not Be Treated Like A Trophy
In our society we place a high priority on being the best, and we reward many of those accomplishments with trophies. The Vince Lombardi trophy for winning the Super Bowl, and the Stanley Cup for hockey are examples. With this kind of consistent reinforcement is there any wonder why a marriage isn't viewed in a similar way.
I mean just think about all of the time and money spent on the dating ritual. The buying of meals, clothing, jewelry, dining out, and hours communicating with each other through phone, text, and email services. All building up to that engagement ring, the popping of the question, and the thrill when she says yes. Talk about making the team.
This is soon followed by even more work by both parties to make sure that no one backs out at the last minute. No wonder why when the last I do is said and the bouquet is thrown that the couple feels like they have truly won a trophy!
But as I said, the marriage is indeed a special prize for all parties involved but it should never be treated like a trophy because in doing so it marks the beginning of the end for your marriage.
What Do You Mean
Well let's examine a few things. By the time most person gets married they have won several real trophies in their life. Sport trophies, swimming trophies, even spelling trophies! Their have been many businesses sustained for decades whose whole purpose was to endow a physical object with enough prestige (with just a hint of exclusivity) to make people compete against each other in hopes of one day possessing it.
The irony of it all, is no matter how important the trophy is at the time, whether it's the World Series or a 12-year old's Little League trophy they all have one thing in common. The shine eventually fades and they all end up collecting dust on some shelve somewhere gathering occasional glances and memory tugs, or worse, relegated to a dusty corner in an attic or basement.
You see, the underlying problem for most couples that possess a trophy mentality is they have begun to believe that since they worked so hard to get it that they no longer have to work to keep it. It's that mindset that makes one time great athletes fat and makes one time great marriages stale.
For a marriage to not just survive but to grow it has to be worked on constantly. You see there's very little danger that the high-school trophy that sits on your mantle piece will vanish. It will just sit there gathering dust; however, a marriage relationship neglected too long will soon cease to exist.
So What Can Be Done
It is vital to keep in mind that in order for any relationship to survive it has to be treated like a living, growing, important thing, and just like the living, can only flourish with plenty of love and attention.
Alas, even with fair warning there will still be those, who promise to tend to their marriages tomorrow, who will look up one day from all that they believed to be important only to realize their marriage is on its last leg or worse. Then and only then will they go on a frantic search for someone to save what never should have gotten sick.
Why does love in a marriage seem to just fade away
For most couples, this isn't intentional but more a result of a busy lifestyle resulting in temporary neglect, similar, although in a larger scale, to forgetting to water a favorite plant or feed a family pet. The sad part is that there are many married couples that realize almost too late that their feelings for each other has all but dried up and their love has almost died. Fortunately, most relationship can still be resuscitated with the proper attention and care and with time the old feelings of love can begin to bloom again.
Why A Marriage Should Not Be Treated Like A Trophy
In our society we place a high priority on being the best, and we reward many of those accomplishments with trophies. The Vince Lombardi trophy for winning the Super Bowl, and the Stanley Cup for hockey are examples. With this kind of consistent reinforcement is there any wonder why a marriage isn't viewed in a similar way.
I mean just think about all of the time and money spent on the dating ritual. The buying of meals, clothing, jewelry, dining out, and hours communicating with each other through phone, text, and email services. All building up to that engagement ring, the popping of the question, and the thrill when she says yes. Talk about making the team.
This is soon followed by even more work by both parties to make sure that no one backs out at the last minute. No wonder why when the last I do is said and the bouquet is thrown that the couple feels like they have truly won a trophy!
But as I said, the marriage is indeed a special prize for all parties involved but it should never be treated like a trophy because in doing so it marks the beginning of the end for your marriage.
What Do You Mean
Well let's examine a few things. By the time most person gets married they have won several real trophies in their life. Sport trophies, swimming trophies, even spelling trophies! Their have been many businesses sustained for decades whose whole purpose was to endow a physical object with enough prestige (with just a hint of exclusivity) to make people compete against each other in hopes of one day possessing it.
The irony of it all, is no matter how important the trophy is at the time, whether it's the World Series or a 12-year old's Little League trophy they all have one thing in common. The shine eventually fades and they all end up collecting dust on some shelve somewhere gathering occasional glances and memory tugs, or worse, relegated to a dusty corner in an attic or basement.
You see, the underlying problem for most couples that possess a trophy mentality is they have begun to believe that since they worked so hard to get it that they no longer have to work to keep it. It's that mindset that makes one time great athletes fat and makes one time great marriages stale.
For a marriage to not just survive but to grow it has to be worked on constantly. You see there's very little danger that the high-school trophy that sits on your mantle piece will vanish. It will just sit there gathering dust; however, a marriage relationship neglected too long will soon cease to exist.
So What Can Be Done
It is vital to keep in mind that in order for any relationship to survive it has to be treated like a living, growing, important thing, and just like the living, can only flourish with plenty of love and attention.
Alas, even with fair warning there will still be those, who promise to tend to their marriages tomorrow, who will look up one day from all that they believed to be important only to realize their marriage is on its last leg or worse. Then and only then will they go on a frantic search for someone to save what never should have gotten sick.
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